Dad gaveaway rights& expects2 have em after bascially 5yrs of nada. son5yrs old been adopted by hubby for 4yrs

"sprem donor" wasn't around for pregnancy or ne off my sons serious surgeries... the day i had my son is same day he knocked up his step sister . my husband has been around since my son was 2wks old 4everything. well he signed over his rights n got out of paying C.S for the 8m he missed till he finally signed over his rights. my husband adopted our son w/in a week of all that. only dad our son knows.is my hubby. well now Spermy has 2 other boys and now he expects for my son to call him dad and doesnt respect the fact he has a dad.. he said he wasnt ready n didnt want b a dad. so i told him thx 4doing right by my son since he couldnt do as needed. so does he have the right to demand my son2 know him call him daddy w/out living the defition of it. have plans to tell my son the truth at a slow pace hes on 5 and has PDD/NOS, I JUST WANNA DO RIGHT BY MY SON ! so wats the best way to do that?



sry 4 rambiling...lolDad gaveaway rights%26amp; expects2 have em after bascially 5yrs of nada. son5yrs old been adopted by hubby for 4yrs
You want to do right by your son and i think you are on the right track. You intend to tell your son the truth and that is important as is the need for him to feel sure that he has a loving mum and dad.



You know you son best. Keep spermy away so that you can take each step, say and do things when you feel time is right.Dad gaveaway rights%26amp; expects2 have em after bascially 5yrs of nada. son5yrs old been adopted by hubby for 4yrs
If hes signed over his rights then he has no right to demand anything. Yu don't have to let him see your son.



Tell him he lost the chance to be the childs father when he decided he cou;dn't be bothered or 'wasn't ready'.



If he continues contacting you demanding things then tell him you'll file a restraining order against him on the grounds of harrasment.



It's good your going to eventually tell your child but let him enjoy his childhood first, wait till he's a teenager at least.



Good LuckDad gaveaway rights%26amp; expects2 have em after bascially 5yrs of nada. son5yrs old been adopted by hubby for 4yrs
Get that man out of your son's life. Evidently he is not concerned about how this news will affect him at this age. He will be so confused. You do realize that your son's biological father now has no legal rights whatsoever to your son, since he gave them up. by law the only father is your hubby that adopted him. If this man bothers your child, you can call the police immediately.
How is the bio dad still around after 5+ years? At 5 your son is old enough to understand about adoption. Legally the bio father as no rights to at all. Tell the bio dad that the child will decide at age 18 whether to contact him or not. Until that time he needs to step aside.



Please stop calling him a sperm donor (he didn't do it in a cup) and stop dishing him for dishing you and the son. In the end he is still the bio dad.